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Svoja je iskustva prenio budućim i novopečenim očevima

Muhammed Nitoto stoji iza popularnog Instagram profila “Chronicles of Daddy”, a nedavno je za njega čuo cijeli svijet nakon što je podijelio savjete kako muškarci mogu pomoći svojim suprugama koje doje.

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Daddy Chronicles Father's Day Edition These two call me Daddy. No other name I've been called in life has changed me as much as this one. I love being their Dad. Every moment, every tantrum, every sleepless night, every diaper change, EVERYTHING. They make my day everyday and I don't know what life would be without them. I use to think it's no big deal being a father. It's my job. But I've learned that because of the world we live in Black Father's are not strongly represented in a positive light. I'm fortunate to be able to help change that narrative and these two are the stars of the show. Happy Father's Day to all the Men who have kids and take care of them. You are the dirt that grows the most beautiful flowers. #theblackmancan #daddydaughter #daddiesgirls #thechroniclesofdaddy #lifestyle #love #daddygang #nitotogirls #twoundertwo #daddysgirls #afrofitness #blackgirlmagic #blackdads #blackfamily #blackfathers #frobabies #blackexcellence #smile #dontforgetdads #wivesandmothers #thedadgang #blackmomsblog #luvblacklove #bestfriendgoals #daddiesdothistoo #happyfathersday #strongblackfathers

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I očevi mogu hraniti dijete

Nitoto je vlastita iskustva prenio budućim i novopečenim očevima. Napravio je popis stvari koje bi muškarci trebali znati o dojenju.

“Kada se mama probudi usred noći, ustanite i vi i pitajte je treba li joj pomoć ili čaša vode. Istina je da će većinu puta reći ‘ne’, ali sama činjenica da ste se ponudili mnogo će joj značiti”, jedan je od savjeta ovoga uzornog oca.

“Pitajte partnericu može li se izdojiti pa da vi preuzmete sljedeće hranjenje bebe. Ponekad ženama treba bezbrižan odmor tijekom kojega se neće morati brinuti o bebi”, nadalje savjetuje Nitoto.

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Daddy Chronicles Breastfeeding Last Month was Breastfeeding Awareness Month. So I figured id drop some knowledge on my fellow Dads and soon to be Dads. Here's what it looks like for the first few weeks or months after your child is born. Yup if mom breastfeeds they pretty much are tucked like this and at times you'll wonder "what is there for me to do?" Here's my top 5 tips for any Dad after your child is born. 1. For night feedings. When mom wakes up in the middle of the night. You get up and ask if she needs any help or water. The truth is most of the time she will say no but just the fact that you offered will go far. 2. Ask mom if she can pump and then pick 1 feeding that you will always do. Mom will take on almost everything and will burn herself out if you let her. At times you may have to force her to rest without worrying about the baby. This is an easy way to do that without a fight. 3. Don't put a time limit on how long mom breastfeed the baby. It's not just about feeding your child it's about them bonding as well. I know everyone has a diffrent length of time they will breastfeed and as a Dad it's hard to fully understand. Do not I repeat DO NOT try and rush this process it's not our place and it's not safe. You will open yourself up to a fight you can't win. 4. Be patient. I know as a Dad the first few weeks we are equally excited and yet not as important yet. Your time will come faster than you know. Babies grow fast and the stronger bigger they get the more Daddy Time will be coming your way. 5. Paternity leave! If you have it TAKE IT. The early stages of a childs life are not just for moms to enjoy. I know as men making the money especially after having a baby but trust me. You can always make money but there are no instant replays in life. It doesn't make you more of a man to not take the leave. It's equally as important that you as a Dad get to be a part of the early development of your child. Someone needs this info Tag them. #theblackmancan #daddydaughter #daddiesgirls #thechroniclesofdaddy #lifestyle #love #daddygang #nitotogirls #twoundertwo #daddysgirls #afrofitness #blackgirlmagic #blackdads #blackfamily #blackfathers #tbt

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Iskoristite porodiljni dopust

“Ne postavljajte vremensko ograničenje koliko bi dugo majka trebala dojiti dijete. Ne radi se samo o hranjenu djeteta, već i o zbližavanju s njime. Ne doji svaka majka dijete jednako dugo, a tatama je to teško razumjeti. Ne požurujte ih i ne narušavajte taj proces. Započet ćete svađu iz koje ne možete izaći kao pobjednik”, toplo preporučuje.

“Budite strpljivi! Znam da su očevi u prvim tjednima jako uzbuđeni. Vaše vrijeme će doći brže nego što mislite. Bebe brzo rastu i, što su veće i snažnije, to će više biti vremena za druženje s tatom”, objašnjava Nitoto i zaključuje:

“Porodiljni dopust! Ako ga imate, iskoristite ga. Rane faze razvoja djeteta nisu samo za mame. Uvijek ćete moći zaraditi novac, ali neke stvari u životu nećete moći ponoviti. Niste veći muškarac ako ne iskoristite porodiljni. Jednako je važno da i tate budu dijelom djetetova života od samoga početka.”

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