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Ona u svojim objavama promovira ljubav prema sebi, prihvaćanje svojega tijela te svijest o mentalnome zdravlju

Kontroverzna objava jedne majke postala je viralna nakon što je fotografirala svojega sina kako drži natpis o menstruaciji. Cilj joj je bio, kako je objasnila, promovirati uključivanje svih onih ljudi koji su nepravedno generalizirani.

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I am beautiful and I don’t mean just because of my amazing smile; I’m beautiful because I’m brave. I am beautiful and I don’t mean just because of my cute nose; I’m beautiful because I’m kind. I am beautiful and I don’t just mean because of my dimply, smushable butt; I’m beautiful because I’m passionate. I’m beautiful and I don’t mean just because of my sweet eyes; I’m beautiful because I speak my truth. Remind yourself and those around you of their beautiful non-physical attributes often and in abundance. 💛 . . . Image description: milly is stood towards the camera, she is smiling with her eyes closed, one hand on her head and one palm facing the camera reading ‘ I am beautiful’ in black pen. She is wearing a leopard print skirt and black top.

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‘I neki muškarci imaju menstruaciju’

Milly Bhaskara privukla je tisuće pratitelja na Instagramu svojim objavama u kojima promovira ljubav prema sebi, prihvaćanje svojega tijela te svijest o mentalnome zdravlju. U jednu je takvu objavu uključila i svojega sina Elija.

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I often get the comment on here of “your family is perfect” I’ll tell you right now we are NOT perfect and I don’t mean the little things like farting in bed or not washing the pots I mean beautifully and not so beautifully flawed. . 🙎🏻‍♀️I’m easily irritated, brain foggy and often too worried about everything. 🙎🏾‍♂️Rishi can be distant and subconsciously selfish with his time. 👦🏽Eli can often not listen and push limits. We are as flawed as we are unique and that’s perfectly okay. We annoy each other and we argue, we can be mean and selfish. So no, we’re not perfect but we are perfect for each other. My two beautiful humans who make me want to pull out what’s left of my hair but who also make me want to live. I’ll grow through what we go through together and we’ll bloom forever 💛🌻 . . . . Image description: milly Rishi and Eli are taking a selfie. Rishi looks shocked and Eli’s pulling a silly face. Milly is smiling! Rishi and Eli are wearing red checked shirts.

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Na fotografiji koja je izazvala podijeljene reakcije, četverogodišnjak drži natpis na kojemu piše: “I neki muškarci također imaju menstruaciju. Ako je ja mogu dobiti, možete i vi.” Njegova je majka Milly u opisu fotografije objasnila poantu.

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“Neki muškarci imaju menstruaciju… Neke nebinarne osobe imaju menstruaciju. Neke žene imaju menstruaciju. Eliju sam ispričala o menstruaciji još kada je prvi put vidio krv na mojim hlačama. Nisam mu rekla da to imaju samo žene jer tako ne bih uključila sve”, napisala je majka.

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Both these stomachs are mine. One from one time in life. One from another. At both these points my stomach was loved. At both these points I had a healthy relationship with my body. . Change is hard but it’s even harder when we are fed the fatphobic, controlling idea that getting larger in any way is simply the worst thing a woman can do, the ridiculous notion that if a woman isn’t shrinking or changing then they are ‘letting them selves’ go, lazy and worthless. . I just wanna live, Man. I just want to roll with life and the body changes it inevitable brings, I wanna smile and appreciate my body more than I hate it…. that shouldn’t be a novel concept. Get off our god damn backs and let us live. My belly being a size 8 or a size 12 affects doesn’t affect my life so it shouldn’t affect anybody else’s. . All bodies are good bodies. Every single one of them. Fuck the idea that we need to change in order to receive respect and basic human rights, fuck that noise. . . . . Image description: The photo is split in two, one photo is of Milly from 2013 wearing gym clothes.m, she has her stomach exposed. The other photo is of Milly 2019, she is in lingerie and sat down on her bed, you can’t see her face but you can see her glorious tummy.

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‘Zbuni dijete, zašto ne?!’

“Trans-muškarci mogu imati ženske spolne organe i imati mjesečnicu. I neke nebinarne osobe mogu je imati. Nije li zato super vijest da će se s pakiranja higijenskih uložaka ukloniti ženski simbol? To nije uvredljivo za žene niti ih diskreditira. To je otvaranje zajednice prema onim osobama koje nisu žene, ali ipak imaju menstruaciju”, zaključila je.

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Putting into words how it feels watching this one grow and mature feels next to impossible… but I’ll try; . Elijah, my sweetheart, seeing you talk in fluent and full sentences takes my words away. It’s like you steal them right out of my mouth and speak them for me. . Elijah, seeing you do tasks dependently that I used to have to do for you makes me anxious and fidgety, what do I do with my hands when you no longer need me to get you dressed. . Elijah, watching you walk into school for the first time and out of my arms made me want to bubble wrap every sharp point in the world and hush every harsh word; how do I cope knowing someone else could hurt you. . Elijah, I birthed you, I’ve raised you into the human that you are today but as your shining personality comes through I see the tethers that tie you to me fraying. Becoming your own human. . Elijah, for every inch you’ve grown in height and heart Momma has grown with you. Your father and I couldn’t be prouder of you. I’m jealous of all the people that get to meet you for the first time, I’m jealous of everyone that gets to be your best friend, I’m jealous of every person that gets to experience your incredible heart. I can’t blanket the world but I can make you a pair of slippers; I hope I’ve made slippers comfy and thick enough. You’ll have a place right here with me whenever the world gets too much, I don’t care if you’re 40, my arms will always be here to hold you. . . . Image description: Milly and Elijah are naked, they are completely covered in an embrace with one another, they are looking towards the camera and smiling.

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Milly je ispod ove objave isključila mogućnost komentiranja, ali je za ovakav istup prikupila više od 6000 lajkova. No, nisu svi oduševljeni njezinim postupkom uključivanja vlastitoga sina u sve to. “Wow…WTF? Zbuni dijete, zašto ne?!”, netko je komentirao na Facebooku.

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– I can’t count the amount of times I’ve wanted to shed my skin like a snake and change every aspect of me. – I can’t count the amount of times I’ve begged to the pain inside me for my body to change. – I can’t count the amount of times I’ve longed for ‘more’, longed for happiness in a body much different than mine. – I can’t count the days of memories lost through fear of my own reflection. I CAN however count the days that I’m rising from the ashes, the days that I can embrace myself and say “you fucking matter, Milly”, the days that I look in the mirror and see the excitement of a day ahead and acceptance of the reflection before me because although they are few and far between they are growing, more are coming as my journey unfolds. Every single of one of those days is etched in my mind and with every day the fire inside roars, it’s spreading and no amount of water is putting this fire out. 🔥I am the fire I am burning brighter Roaring like a storm And I am the one I've been waiting for Screaming like a siren Alive and burning brighter I am the fire🔥- I am the fire @halestormrocks @officiallzzyhale . . . Image description: Milly is sitting down, she is wearing black lingerie and fishnet tights that go up to her waist. She has red hair and is staring directly at the camera with her arm above her head.

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Ova je Britanka objavila spomenuti post nakon što je – podsjećamo – tvrtka Always odlučila ukloniti ženski simbol sa svih svojih pakiranja, kako bi “promicala raznolikost i bolje razumjela potrebe svih svojih korisnika”.

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