Neprospavane noći

ISKRENA PORUKA U KOJOJ ĆE SE PRONAĆI SVAKA ISCRPLJENA MAMA: ‘Molim vas uhitite me, malo bih odspavala u ćeliji…’

Jules Coffey je na Instagramu otvorila profil New Mums The Word, gdje piše o svojim iskustvima tijekom odrastanja njezine jednogodišnje kćeri.

Svoje pratitelje je izvijestila o još jednoj neprospavanoj noći, dok njezinoj kćeri raste četvrti zubić.

“Ne bih se iznenadila da je netko od susjeda sinoć prijavio neželjeni plač bebe policiji. ‘Ne, ne, sve je u redu, hvala vam, ali ako biste me mogli uhititi da bih samo malo odspavala u ćeliji'”, našalila se.

You know when you're really tired & you have to close one eye to focus. Kinda like half of you is at least napping? That's me typing this. I wouldn't have been surprised if the Neighbours reported an unattended crying infant to the police last night. "No no officer all is fine thank you, but if you could possibly arrest me so I could grab some sleep in the holding cell that would be tops". See said child was not left to cry she was cuddled, rocked, patted, sang to, taken out into the loungeroom to watch wiggles, taken outside to look for birdies (all might I add I don't ever do because all of the above I am opposed to but when your child is in pain like that and screaming uncontrollably like never before – zero fucks will be given) given water, given 3 bottles, given Panadol, given gel, kissed, loved, changed nappy, changed clothes, put in with the dog (she was STOKED at 2am).Sometimes NOTHING WORKS.Sometimes you just have to do what you gotta do to SURVIVE.Although I don't look like I survived.Tooth 4 has cracked & is swollen, she has a ulcer on her tongue from chewing down on it & life is just a bit shit for her.It breaks your heart to see them like that. I'm a tough one for routine & not giving in but it's all irrelevant in circumstances like last night.So many emotions involved as a parent when your child is in distress.Empathy, sadness, frustration, resentment.I went from saying "my poor girl it's ok" to "stop, you are being silly now, calm down mummy has had enough!" She was tired.I was tired.Daddy was tired.The dog was tired. I'm sure the Neighbours were tired.So to women out there who have had these moments of utter exhaustion & despair, when you feel like you are going to crack, you are not alone.We are all human, it's normal to go through all the emotions when these tiny people are so reliant on you. It's physically (seriously though my arms & back think they have done a pump class) & emotionally draining.You have just got to do what you have to do in the moment & not be afraid to ask for help (MY GOD ADAM GET UP & GET THE FRIGGEN PANADOL) & remember 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS'. #untilthencoffeeandwine #andflipteeththebird #iminaglasscageofemotion

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Jules Coffey kaže kako njezina kćerkica ne prestaje plakati, zbog čega je po cijele noći budna, probala ju je na razne načine umiriti, ali ništa ne pomaže.

Njezin post privukao je druge mame, koje dobro znaju kako je to kada mališanima rastu zubi. Ova mama kaže kako je probala sve – pjevala joj je, puštala crtiće, izvodila u šetnju da traže ptičice, pa čak ju je u dva sata ujutro pustila da se igra s psom.

“To su sve stvari koje inače ne radi, ali kada vaše dijete nešto boli, pa ono nekontrolirano plače kao nikad prije, je*e vam se za sve”, kaže Jules.

Istaknula je kako je za roditelje teško kada se dijete nalazi u takvoj situaciji. Tada roditelji osjećaju empatiju, tugu, frustraciju.

“Prvo sam je tješila riječima da će svi biti u redu, a onda sam probala biti i malo odrješitija: “Prestani se glupirati, smiri se, mama ne može više izdržati”.

Mummy & daughter sushi date with my adorable little ladybug 🐞

A photo posted by Jules Coffey (@newmumstheword) on

“Svim ženama koje prolaze kroz ove trenutke krajnje iscrpljenosti i očaja, kada osjećate kao da ćete puknute, znajte da niste same”, ohrabrila je ostale mame.

Očigledno je doprla do ostalih majki.

“Trebalo mi je da sada pročitam ovo! Hvala ti što si me podsjetila da nisam sama”, napisala je druga mama.

“Mislim da ne postoji mama na svijetu koja se ne pronalazi u ovome, hvala ti što si to podijelila s nama”, dodala je još jedna.

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